Adoption Update!

There has certainly been no lack of activity in this house-just a Mama who has been remiss in reporting the recent events. In order to bring you up to speed, here is the latest news.

On March 4th we received Chaltu's (I will likely refer to her as ChallieJayne or Challie from now on) Ethiopian birth certificate. We were told by our agency that they were just waiting for the rest of the adoption and court documents to arrive so that they could file the paperwork to classify her as our relative (this is the I-600 in adoption/immigration speak). On March 11th, we found out that the local immigration office officially updated our approval to reflect an older child, YAY!
Then on March 22nd, our agency informed us that they had in fact submitted the I-600(and immigration verified that they received it on March 24th)!

So now what?

We wait for an embassy date in Ethiopia. This is when the visa interview occurs, and when she is issued a United States entry visa to come to the US! We don't know when or where, but we were told by our agency that it has typically been taking 6-12 weeks from the time the I-600 was filed to the embassy appointment. She will be escorted to the US, and although we do not know the exact port of entry, it looks like there is a good chance that it will be Washington, DC. We will drive there a day or so before and rest up before we have our "Forever Family Day." We were hoping it would be before her birthday, but since that is May 7th, it does not look like that will happen.

Reminding myself that it is all in His perfect timing.

I have posted some pics. Thank God for the families who have already traveled to pick up their children and volunteered to take pics of our sweet girl (THANK YOU AMANDA)! From the pics we have, we have determined a few things:

(1) There are a LOT of pics of her eating-she will fit in well with this family :O)
(2) She has a LOT of personality (will be very interesting with AlinaJayne)
(3) From the bruise on her forehead, she is as graceful as the rest of this family
(4) I may finally have a daughter who is short like me

The other thing we found to be amusing-there is a pic of her on the potty, and she has the exact same undies that AlinaJayne had when she was 3!

Check back soon. I promise to be better about keeping this blog updated! In the meantime, enjoy the pics.


(you can click on the collage to make it bigger)

 

Absence explained.........

Hello all,

It has been a LONG time since I have posted. I want to bring you up to date on what has been going on and why I have been absent from the business of blogging.

As some of you may know, AlinaJayne has been sick a lot this cold and flu season. It seems like this normally healthy child has caught every bug imaginable this season. The last time was March 31st to April 5th. She had a high fever , 2 severe nosebleeds a day and headache. We took her to the ER on April 4th for a nosebleed that would not stop, and they completely dismissed us. Sent us home with a nose clamp. No labs, no testing. Being a Nurse Practitioner, I struggled to maintain my professionalism. After this last round of sickeness, she saw the doc, and I asked for labs to be checked. Her white blood cell study came back last Friday, and was markedly abnormal. There are a handful of possible causes for this, and unfortunately, of the possible reasons, leukemia is one of them. I made an appointment for her to see a pediatric oncologist this week.

Fast forward to he evening of Monday 4/12. She woke up in bed, grabbed her head screaming "it hurts so bad, make it stop" and simultaneously projectile vomited. While we were trying to get her ready to go to the ER, she continued to hold her head and scream and vomit. She had a CT scan in the ER and blood work (at this time her white cells were normal again, so the ER doc did not think she needed to see the oncologist), and was admitted for further testing. She had a brain MRI, EEG, and a LOT of blood work. Saw and ENT and neurologist. The tests were normal, the ENT said she has large, fragile veins in her nose that are easily ruptured and not to worry about that (thank God), and she was diagnosed with migraines. On top of this, while she was in for all of the above, she developed some sort of stomach issue, and had 15 watery stools in 2 days-for which they could find no cause-thank God she had an IV. To our disappointment, her white cell count is markedly abnormal again, and she will need to see the hematologist/oncologist.


She came home Thursday PM, and is acting fine now. I really feel bad that a 5 year old has migraines (I have had them for 25 years), but our biggest concern is obviously ruling out leukemia. We are praying that it is only a congenital disorder. The tough part is not having any birth history to tell the physicians about.

Needless to say, we appreciate all prayers and positive thoughts.

I will post an adoption update soon. I feel ChallieJayne deserves her own posting.

More later.