Thursday, September 18, 2008

Melt My Heart!

Alina Jayne's Place Mat

Yes, of course, kids say the cutest things. I know all parents have sweet stories about their kids, and I am no exception-Alina Jayne gives us several great stories to talk about on a daily basis.

With that disclaimer, here is my story:

About 2 weeks ago, we bought Alina Jayne a place mat that has a map of the world on one side. We wanted her to know that people come from all over the world, just as she and her family and friends are from very different places around the world. She is always asking "where is that place, Mama?" or "show me on the map." While we were waiting in line to buy the place mat, she had already memorized the United States, Canada, China, Italy and Russia! I showed her where the United States is and where China is on her place mat, and explained (like I do very frequently) that Daddy and I got on a plane, flew across the ocean and over to China to bring our Alina Jayne home forever.

While we were eating dinner on Tuesday night, she was reciting the countries she has memorized. Then she said "here we are in the "Nited" States, and Mama and Daddy flew waaaayyy across this river (that's okay, I was never very good in geography) to my China to bring me home." Then she said "Thanks Mama, thanks Daddy for bringing me home."

Now, I know she does not *fully* understand it all at 3 1/2 years old, but is that sweet or what?

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Happy Mid-Autumn Moon Festival!!!

Since it seems I LOVE to give history lessons-here is some info on the Moon Festival (or Mid-Autumn Moon Festival).

This festival was originally named the Mid-Autumn Festival, and it is one of the most important holidays celebrated by Chinese communities around the world. This year it is celebrated on September 14th. It is similar to our Thanksgiving.

Traditionally, it is celebrated on the fifteenth day of the eighth lunar month in observance of the bountiful autumn harvest. Although old rituals are no longer followed, families still continue to gather for a day to relax and eat moon cakes. A Traditional Moon Cake

It is during this time that the legend of the Moon Goddess (CHANG-O) is often told to children.

Chang-O


It is said that once upon a time there was a famous archer named Hou Yi, who was able to slay mankind’s worst enemies, and the most ferocious beasts that inhabited the earth with his arrows. Yi was married to Chang-O, who was a beautiful but inquisitive woman who had been an attendant of the queen mother of the west before her marriage. During this time there were 10 suns that took turns circling the earth-one every 10 days. One day, all 10 of the them circled at the same time, causing the earth’s surface to burn and threatening mankind. The wise emperor of China summoned Yi and commanded him to kill all but one of the suns, which he did without question. Once this task was completed, Yi was rewarded with a pill, which was “the elixir of life.” The emperor advised Yi to “make no haste to swallow this pill, but first prepare yourself with prayer and fasting for a year." Being a wise man, Yi took the pill home and hid it under a rafter while he began healing his spirit. In the midst of this task, the emperor summoned Yi again.

While her husband was gone, Chang-O noticed a beam of white light beckoning from the rafter. She followed it and its fragrant perfume, and discovered the pill and swallowed it. Immediately, Chang-O found she could fly. At that same moment, her Yi returned home. When he realized what had happened, he began to reprimand his wife. Chang-O flew out the window and into the sky. Yi sped after her, bow in hand, and the pursuit continued halfway across the heavens. Finally, Yi had to return to the earth because of the force of the wind.

His wife reached the moon. Breathless, she coughed and part of the pill fell from her mouth. Now, the hare was already on the moon and Chang-O commanded the animal to take a pestle and mortar and pound another pill so that she could return to earth and her husband. To this day the hare is still pounding. Yi built himself a palace in the sun as Yang (the sun and the male principle), and Chang-O as Yin (the moon and the female principle).

Once a year, on the 15th day of the full moon, Yi visits his wife. This is why the moon is full and beautiful on that night. This is the night we celebrate the moon festival, eating moon cakes and other foods (such as nuts and fruits that are round like the moon) gathered with the ones we love, and thinking of those we love who are far away and cannot be with us.

We usually make moon cakes here at home. We do use traditional moon cake molds, but a very simple (non-authentic) recipe, and fill them with preserves. We did order authentic moon cakes from Chinatown in New York the year before Alina Jayne came home- let's just say they were interesting! Last year we followed the suggestion of a friend who has two daughters adopted from China, and bought moon pies (you know, those chocolate covered marshmallow things). They were simple and round like the moon, so that is all that matters!

And as usual, I will be thinking about my Mom, who lost her battle with cancer in 2000. Although Alina Jayne will never meet her, she is named after her (my Mom's name is Jayne). Alina Jayne routinely shows anyone who will listen pictures of her, exclaiming "this is MY Nana."

Happy Mid-Autumn Moon Festival!


Kristy's Mom & Dad

Friday, September 12, 2008

Happy New Year!!!!

Meskal Daisies

Enkutatash / Addis Amet

"Ethiopian New Year"


Meskerem 1st/September 11th


Melkam Addis Amet = HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

Sorry this is a bit delayed-I had some "technical issues" posting this!

While 9/11/2008 was a sad time for us in the USA, it was a time of celebration in Ethiopia. September 11th was New Year in Ethiopia (another history lesson here).

Enkutatash or Ethiopian New Year, is celebrated on September 11th according to the Western or Gregorian calendar. Ethiopia still follows the Orthodox Julian calendar which consists of 12 months of 30 days and a 13th month (Pagume) of five or six days, depending on whether or not it is a leap year. The Ethiopian calendar is seven years and eight months behind the Gregorian calendar, so September 2001 is Meskerem 1994 in Ethiopia.

Ethiopians also measure time differently than we do in the west. The clock starts at 6am western time and runs until 6pm. So-8o'clock in western time would be 2o'clock Ethiopian time. Ethiopia is close to the equator. As a result, the sun rises at around 00.30 Ethiopian time and sets at around 12.45 in the evening (6.45 western equivalent) all year round. Ethiopia is 3 hours ahead of GMT (Greenwich Mean Time). The years run in a four year cycle bearing the names of the Gospels with the year of John or Yohannes being the leap year.


Enkutatash is an important festival in the lives of Ethiopians. After three months of heavy rains the sun comes out creating a beautiful clear fresh atmosphere. The highland fields turn to gold as the Meskal daisies burst into flower. When Makeda (the Queen of Sheba) returned to Ethiopia after her famous visit to King Solomon, her chiefs welcomed her forward by giving her "enku" or jewels. Enkutatash which means "gift of jewels"' has been celebrated ever since in spring. Meskerem is seen as a month of transition from the old year to the new. It is a time to express hopes and dreams for the future.

On New Year's Eve, torches of dry leaves and wood bundled in the form of tall and thick sticks are also set on fire in front of houses as the young and old sing. Early in the morning everybody goes to Church wearing traditional Ethiopian clothing. After Church there is a family meal of Injera (flat bread) and Wat (stew). The girls go from house to house singing New Year songs for money and the boys sell pictures that they have drawn. In the evening families go to visit their friends and drink tella (the traditional Ethiopian beer). The elders discuss their hopes for the New Year the children spend the money they have earned. Recently, it has become usual for well-to-do city dwellers to send each other New Year greetings cards instead of the more traditional bunches of flowers.

Stay tuned...............

We have another special holiday to celebrate here soon. The (Chinese) Mid Autumn Moon Festival will be celebrated on September 14th!! Does anyone sense another impending history lesson?

Isn't this exciting?! So many things to celebrate in this multi-cultural family!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Quick Update

We had our first of two visits with our Social Worker for our Home Study on Wednesday evening. Maybe we are just "seasoned" adoptive parents now after jumping through so many hoops for Alina Jayne's adoption-but that visit went so well. Absolutely no pressure. It was actually a nice visit! The kiddos had to be present for this one, so now that is out of the way. One more to go and a few more documents to paperchase after, and we can submit our I-600A (AKA Application for Advance Processing of Orphan Petition ) to Immigration (now known as USCIS or United States Citizenship and Immigration Service). Once this application, supporting documents (i.e. completed Home Study, marriage/birth certificates, employer letters, etc) are received and reviewed, we then get our appointment to have our fingerprints taken for FBI/Immigration clearance. Once those are processed (and in this State, the process can take 3+ months), USCIS will issue the coveted I-171H. This is formally called the "Notice of Favorable Determination Concerning Application for Advance Processing of Orphan Petition." What it means is that the United States Government has deemed us fit to adopt a child from Ethiopia. In other words-the dossier (the hundreds of pages of papers gathered to send to Ethiopia) will be ready to send to our adoption agency-then ON TO ETHIOPIA!!

One more bit of news to report. We *had* planned to adopt one female aged 0-30 months, but were also open to a sibling group of two girls or a boy/girl sibling set of the same age range. On Tuesday night I asked Matt what he thought about modifying our plan a bit, and requesting either gender, or a sibling set of two children aged 0-30 months, either gender. I was SHOCKED when he said he had been thinking the exact same thing! So, now we have no gender preference. We will be truly surprised when we finally end up receiving the referral! We are both sooooooo excited about the unknown!

Take care and check back often :O)

From Our Garden

Alina Jayne After Coloring Her Face With Sidewalk Chalk

From Our Garden